A Lose Lose Situation Men Put Themselves In With Women

It amazes me how so many men can fall for a woman's routing of waiting to have sex.

When you wait to have sex longer than you would like it increases the chances of you not having sex with her.

The main reason is simple, even though she might not say it her making you wait till she is ready is her setting you up to be in the "friend zone"

As we all should know by now, an involuntary trip to the friend zone is usually a permanent trip.

Understand that you should never force or beg a woman to have sex with you before she is ready to have sex with you, as one is illegal and the other just plain weak.

Yet, you must not accept her answer as fact and never agree to and wait till her arbitrary day of consummation

Women want a man who is in control and if you give her control just by her telling you to wait, you potentially kill whatever attraction you had managed to create in the first place.

To make matters even more obvious, if she was in control of her emotions enough to tell you to wait, there is little if any amount of attraction to begin with.

Of course, another reason not to wait is, assuming you somehow manage to avoid the "friend zone" for the duration of the waiting period; you and her are now in the habit of not having sex with each other.

In addition, you more than likely found yourself doing a whole lot of things you didn't want to do and did them only because she wanted to do them.

This means, you have put yourself in the habit of doing things you don't want to do as well as reinforces the habit of her controlling you.

In the end, agreeing to wait till her arbitrary time in the future to have sex puts you in a lose-lose situation with yourself.

You lose if you go into the "friend zone" and you lose if you allow her to control your life.